Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Up from the Blue by Susan Henderson — 336 pgs


Book CoverTillie has just gone into early labor. With her husband away on business, a new home to be organized and no working telephone, Tillie is ill-prepared for the turns her life is taking. When she phones her estranged father for help, she begins to travel backward in her mind to the summer of her seventh year, when life was just as unpredictable as it is today. Tillie reminisces about her time living on a military base with her no-nonsense father, straitlaced brother and emotionally unstable mother. Though Tillie tries not to be difficult and demanding, she finds it increasingly hard to do so amidst her mother's deteriorating mental condition, and her father's iron sternness. As Tillie winds her way from the past to the present, a shocking picture of her family dynamic is revealed, and no matter how hard she tries to avoid it, she begins to discover the secrets of her family that have been buried for so long. Both harrowing and revelatory, Up From the Blue shares the journey of a fragile and damaged little girl, who is trying desperately to understand her world and to maintain some semblance of order in her life and heart.

This book was a tough customer, and not for the reasons you might expect. There are a lot of books out there right now that deal with the repercussions of having a mentally ill parent, and frankly, I would like to read them all. There's just something about this subject that fascinates me and I think part of it is the myriad ways that a child can interpret and internalizes these situations. For these and many other reasons, I was really excited to start this book and see what the author had in store for me. What I found was a story that was incredibly painful to read and think about, and one that brought out a lot of conflicting emotions out in me.

Reading about things from Tilly's perspective was at times too much to bear. As a seven-year-old, Tilly sees the world in black and white and it's very hard for her to understand her mother's mental blips and frailties. She takes a lot of blame on herself and finds herself constantly wondering which of her actions is the cause of her mother's strange behavior. Added to this is the fact that she feels responsible for her mother in some ways and seeks to defend her from her father's stern and lengthy reprisals. Tilly is caught in the middle of a lot of things that she can't possibly understand, and because of that she's very confused most of the time. She has strong feelings of loyalty to her mother and often tries to find excuses for her mother's bizarre and alienating behavior. I was saddened reading about Tilly's life. It was obvious she was struggling very deeply with what was going on, but the adults in her life failed to see this and react to it, leaving Tilly twisting in the winds of shame and abandonment.

I also thought it was heartbreaking that most of the ancillary adults in Tilly's life repeatedly called her a pest and a nuisance and seemed to feel that Tilly exacerbated her family's problems. As a reader, I could see that Tilly's manifestations of troublesome behavior were a direct offshoot of her mother's disability and her father's mismanagement of it. Sadly, those who dealt with her preferred to focus on her negative behavior in unhelpful and castigating ways. This caused Tilly to feel misunderstood and actually made her behavior worse. It was clear that this was a self-perpetuating cycle, and one that was never fully resolved in the book. It was angering but it did help me to be more in touch with and understanding of Tilly's character and to wish that she had someone in her life to love her unconditionally. Her mother simply wasn't capable and her father and brother were unwilling.

The book's dual narrative leaned more heavily towards the past, but what was presented in the more recent sections was also raw and painful to read about. It appeared that Tilly was never able to pull out of the tailspin of her past, and the strained relationship she had with her father proved that her childhood crippled her in ways that were hard to understand. Though it seemed her father wanted to be there for in this new and uncharted stage of her life, it was clear that his previous actions as a father and husband left both Tillie and her brother scarred. It wasn't as if Tillie was holding a grudge but more like she was unable to process the things that had happened to her, leaving her incapable of forming a continuing relationship with her father.

The sections that related the life of Mara, Tillie's mother, were more difficult to pinpoint. It was never clear which mental disorder she suffered from, and because of the sense that the symptoms morphed and shifted, it was hard to me to figure out just what kind of help she needed. It was obvious she could be incredibly selfish and immature at times, which both angered her husband and drew the children's confidences away from her, but her disease was a shadowy enigma in the story that I never fully understood. Though this was a bit troublesome to me, the overall message of the story remained clear and inarguable.

Though this book was an incredibly painful read, I think there was a magnificent direction and candor in the plot and that the story of Tillie was explored in a way that a lot of readers will understand and sympathize with. It wasn't a book with a unified and happy ending, but so few of these stories really do end in that fashion. This a book I had a hard time peeling myself away from and one that made me think very hard about the plight of children whose parents deal with mental illness. A very focused and introspective read. Recommended.


Author PhotoAbout the Author

Susan Henderson is a two-time Pushcart Prize nominee and the founder of the literary blog LitPark: Where Writers Come to Play. Her work has appeared in Zoetrope: All-Story, the Pittsburgh Quarterly, North Atlantic Review, Opium, and many other publications. Henderson lives in New York, and Up from the Blue is her first novel.

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This book was provided as a complimentary review copy.

19 comments:

Mrs. Q: Book Addict said...

I'm adding this one to my WL. Difficult stories may be hard to read at times, but they do tend to stay with you. Great review! Heading over to goodreads to add it...

Literary Feline said...

What a wonderful review, Heather! You captured so much of the book here. I really felt bad for Tillie. She seemed like such a free spirit and I hated that so many people in her life wanted her fit into a box she just couldn't fit into.

Coffee and a Book Chick said...

I really enjoy reading your reviews -- there's always so much substance and flavor to it, and it gets me very interested in picking a book up when previously I may have put the book down. Thanks for always putting so much thought into these!!

softdrink said...

I just read Asta in the Wings, which is another book about living with a mentally ill parent.

M.L. Malcolm said...

I recently read this a plane going from NY to LA. I, too, thought "Okay, another psycho mom drama" but found I was really pulled in by Tillie's story. Read it for five hours straight and had to finish it that night when I got home. Not a "fun" book, but a very compelling one.

Amy said...

Sounds like a powerful and painful book. I passed my copy of this along, but I'm glad you liked it :)

S. Krishna said...

Wow, great review! I really appreciate it too, for some reason I had the impression this was a lighter book. It would have been bad if I'd picked it up when I was in the mood for something fluffy!

Sandy Nawrot said...

I saw this book at SIBA and almost picked it up. As hard as I'm sure it was to read, I bet it really would make any reader look twice at children's behavior and maybe try a little harder to see things from their perspective. I didn't even read the book, and my heart just breaks for the poor thing.

Suko said...

This sounds positively heart-breaking. Childhood is hard enough, but having a mentally ill parent can wreck havoc with the sense of security and stability young children need. Excellent review, as usual Zibilee.

Marie said...

I got this unsolicited the other day and it looked interesting- thanks for your review, I think I'll have to make time to read it!

Nymeth said...

Oh, how I'd missed reading your reviews! Like you, I could read every book out there on this topic. It's a subject a bit close to home, and I'm endlessly curious about how other people cope.

Jenners said...

Wonderful and thoughtful review (as always). I do find myself interested in these types of stories, but I can only handle so many of them at one time. They do tend to drag me down.

bermudaonion said...

It always breaks my heart when I read about children who feel responsible for their parents even though I know it's a reality for many children. The book sounds like one I would enjoy. Great review, as always!

Bibliophile By the Sea said...

WOW....sounds so powerful. For some reason, I am attracted to these types of reads as well. Thanks for blogging about this one.

Vasilly said...

As usual, this review blew me away. Difficult reads tend to be the ones that usually stay with us.

Lisa said...

Wonderful review! You've definitely convinced me that, though painful, this is a book worth reading.

Jenny said...

I think I'm going to pull this book out from my review stack and place it out where I remember to read it soon. Sounds powerful. It's so unfair to children to be put in that situation. I've heard such great things about this book and your review makes it sound like an important read!

Stacy at A Novel Source said...

your reviews are always so incredible! i hope you are in the process of writing your own story of some sort - you are such a beautiful writer! the way you weave words together is so seamless and wonderful!

Melissa M said...

I find this a fascinating subject too. I have to read difficult books when I'm in the right frame of mind as they do affect my mood.

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